14 week pregnancy bump??!

So I’m having my third child and I’ve always been a little overweight. Basically I got asked if I was pregnant if I wasn’t because much of my weight is carried in my belly. Now I’m 14 weeks pregnant and basically really bloated. Not sure how to wear my clothes cause I just look extra chubby. However if I wear like a tank top or pregnancy pants I look like I have the perfect 6 month pregnant belly. 🙄 as a waitress, my husband told me I should try to show off my belly because basically people love pregnant women. He is not wrong from my previous time being pregnant while serving. I wasn’t sure I was ready for all of that yet, instead of just being me and not labeled the pregnant one. I just can’t figure out how to wear my clothes cause I wear those high rise pants and a baggy shirt and it doesn’t look great. I just look large and idk if I’d consider myself a large person. After 2 kids my belly just isn’t the same anymore and it makes me self conscious.