How do I respond to my partner when you express to him that you don't like it when you're being scolded or they're almost yelling at you. And they say they were frustrated and that it's ok for them to talk to you that way just because they're frustrated or upset or annoyed with you. And it wasn't something even big. Somtimes I get scolded for sorting laundry and leaving it on the floor because he needs my help and I go help real fast and he has to go use the restroom and the clothes are in the way. But he could easily move them or talk to me like an adult. I have to explain well you asked for my help. I didn't think you were going to the restroom. I was going to g right back to what I was doing. That's just one of the things that happened today but the other one was just a long story. It was similar to that. I just don't know how to respond to him. I don't know what to say or if it's ok for your partner to talk to you that way .