My fiancé knew I had sex in mind tonight but I had to shower first, I showered, and laid on the couch in my towel waiting for him to finish his madden game. Finally he came back to the couch and got on top and gave my neck a kiss and then began fingering me, 2 pumps, 2. Then he attempts to stick his soft penis in me which I told him was really uncomfortable and he said let’s move to the room, so we do, I said to him I need a little more foreplay to get me going and his response was “why do you have to make this so difficult? Why do I have to do that every time? This is what a quickie is for” and after that I started putting my clothes on and he said he wasn’t having sex tonight and he’s going to go smoke his blunt and play games. I feel so hurt and down. All I wanted was some intimacy, foreplay, and I even asked for it yet got shot down and pretty much told I’m asking for too much. I’m telling him what I need from him to please me and he can’t even accomplish this.

*reply* *she deleted her comment* I never agreed on a quickie, he never said that’s what this is until I asked for foreplay. It’s not like he was in the middle of a game. This happens quite a bit with us and foreplay isn’t “a lot of work” it’s a normal necessity in a sex life. I literally had an entire talk with him and communicated about a week ago on what I need during sex so I’ve communicated everything quite clearly.