we had a halloween party at my moms on halloween and my husband stayed home. my brother and his gf and my step brother and his wife came and my little sister also had her group of friends over but one of them is a girl transitioning into a boy and she dates him i believe. so we (myself and my step brother and brothers girls) were sitting in the car and my sister was walking her bf out and i said that’s her bf and my step brother wife said u mean her gf and i said no her bf and she said that’s a girl and i said well don’t judge my little sister and they were like no no no we ain’t and i was like “that’s my fave thing about her that she’s the most nonjudgmental person i know but the most judgmental person i know is my husband” and she was like and you married him…. like yeah???? bc he has other great qualities like ??? and then i asked if they believe in soulmates and they said yes but u can have more than one and i said “there’s no other person i think could match my soul better than my husband” and she’s like “but he’s the most judgemental person and he’s judging ppl” i was like “he has other great qualities but that’s just one of the negative ones” and she’s like “okay so in 5 years we’re gonna have this same conversation again” and i felt so bad bc my intentions weren’t to throw my husband under the bus or anything at all.. i didn’t know she was gonna respond like that 😭😭😭 i’m not sure how to stop feeling shitty about it or if she even matters enough for me to care but yeah… any thoughts? don’t get on me too hard 😒