This topic is very sensitive: for reference I am 22 and he is 26.

So, my boyfriend of 3 months (yeah) got me pregnant. I know it takes two. However, the night of conception was a night where I was very drunk and he was completely sober. He made a “mistake” and didn’t tell me until a week later, so I was unable to take any precautions. Before this even happened, he always talked about how he wanted children and “what would you do if you were pregnant?” I told him I wasn’t ready so I would always make sure we were careful.

Well, I’m pregnant. I’m not ready. Financially, emotionally (still dealing with some depression which this has only made it worse.)

He hates the thought of me even mentioning abortion.

I’ve felt so upset since the night I found out… not even a moment of happiness since. I’m about 7 weeks now.

I know I need to take what he wants into consideration, but it’s hard whenever I know what is best for me.

I live on my own right now and I am an X-ray tech. He doesn’t really have a job and talks about how he would just stay home with the baby. He also lives an hour away and expects me to move there. I’m not in love with him. Especially after this, I actually feel resentment.

I just need advice on what to do whenever we have two different viewpoints and neither of us can see the others point of view.

Thank you, please do not spread negativity on this post.