Last time around we waited until birth to find the gender (my decision) but this time around I think I’d quite like to know, 1) to prepare our little girl for either a brother or sister and 2) because I feel like I’m struggling to bond without knowing anything about this baby. My partner is dead set on waiting until birth again even though last time he wanted to find out but let me have my own way, I promised this time it’d be his decision. So my question is, once you found out the gender were you able to build a stronger bond with your child?