How to deal with critical parents but don't help?
By that I mean my parents tell me how to raise my kids and treat me like I'm not the mother to my own kids.
They'll say they should eat this, Don't put them in daycare but we aren't gonna watch them so you have to figure it out and threaten to kick me out if I use daycarw, my son has autism last night I tried my best to calm him but he still screamed and my dad came I'm and starred yelling at me and that woke up my daughter and she started yelling. My dad always thinks he can do things better than me and be a better parent when he wasn't one himself. So he took my son and he ended up still screaming way into the night.
And he talked about me calling me weak and pathetic.
My mom will say don't take them out it's too cold or hot. She told me my daughter needs to be potty trained just bc she took her diaper off and she peed on the floor. I was gonna do it when she showed signs of readiness.
When I say anything they just tell me to shut up .
For those wondering. I'm trying to move have BD on Childsupport..well not yet his court date is monday..they'll tell him what to pay. I just found a wfh job. My car was totaled so I have to get a new one. Lost my other jobs bc I'm a single mom and when I have to leave work for kids I get fired
I also confronted my parents on this issue. They don't care.
I'm just venting really.
@Sammi I'm trying. I'm worried my BD may try to take me for custody bc once I get a car I'm thinking of hotel living. I'm afraid my BD will say my living arrangements are sub par and take her. He already wants joint so he can claim her so tax money.
@G.G. I'm all of those. I tried the Kars 3 kids they said I'd have to call around to private sellers bc that's who they give their cars to. So I'm doing that now.
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