My husband is in the military. He took leave for 2 and a half weeks so that we could go see our families. We have a joint account but that’s only for bills. he also has a cashapp account that he puts money into. He had well over $4000 in that account to go home. I don’t have access to that account at all. I told him we can use the money that’s left over to pay for groceries and pay off a debt and still have extra. We came back home after visiting family and he has spent EVERY CENT of that money. On Pokémon games, clothes, new boots, and alcohol (he kept buying drinks for friends.) I’m literally so upset. I’m 15 weeks pregnant and am panicking. What am I even supposed to do? We’re going to a financial advisor this week. I’m so angry but I don’t want to have an outburst because it’s not like that helps anything. I just want to scream.