Stuck between being a stay at home mom/wife or working full time

I was a stay at home mom/wife for 3 years & I’ve been working for 9 months now . Don’t get me wrong I love both but I’m so stuck between the two … I had a parent teacher conference yesterday & the teacher just opened my eyes saying time flies , take advantage being with your kids . $ comes & goes . Jobs will always be hiring. The kids don’t care about $ , all they really want is to see their parents… 😓 On my ride back home I just bursted out in tears bc it’s true … most of us buy expensive things for our kids thinking it’ll make them happy but in reality all they really want is their loved ones with them 🥺 & my husband asked if I wanted to quit I can 🥺 I’m just so thankful I have him in life for letting me experience it but I’m just sooooo ughhhh rnnnn like what do I do … was the parent teacher conference a sign? 😭