I wish my husband would look at me the way he looks at his dog and his cell phone..

i feel non existent, I feel like I’m the unpaid maid and chef in one

I came home from work the other day and I had told him I had a tough day at work the first thing he said to me was “What’s for dinner, I’m hungry I haven’t ate much today”

The floors hadn’t been swept, the sink was still full of dishes the kitty litter hadn’t been done… I had to do it all when I got home while he sat their playing on his phone

I have spoken to him about this he apologizes and helps for a day or two but it always goes back to this- he’s always on his phone, always “too sore” for sex, always too tired for sex and if we do have sex he doesn’t get me off and it lasts all of a minute if that

We don’t cuddle anymore, he only kisses me when he leaves but that’s all…