Wife has always has phone on silent

Ever since 2012 my wife has always kept her phone on silent mode

I make it a point to make it a big deal that she leaves it on silent mode

Her excuse is I don’t like to hear ding ding ding ding all the time, even when yours goes off it drives me nuts 🤷‍♀️

I told her to mute all notifications easy and done she refuses to even do that

She said doesn’t that defeat the purpose of disabling silent mode??

Anyways …..anyone think she has it off cos she might be cheating????