I have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship and a 4 month old daughter with my fiance. He doesn't want my son to come to his parents house because he doesn't know if my son will act up. When my son acts up he just has a lot of energy. He doesn't do anything bad. I have my son for Christmas this year and my fiance is making me choose between going to his parents house with just my daughter and him which would leave my son with my parents or stay home and it would just be my daughter, my son and my parents will be coming over. He refuses to spend Christmas at home with me and my son. I get him wanting to be with family but I want to spend Christmas with both my kids especially since my son will be with his dad for Christmas next year. I'm just so upset about all of this.