Me and my husband have been together 10 years we have had a great marriage but in the last 2 years our sex life has been none existent!

We have been intimate one time this year and he's just constantly on his phone/watching football (he's not cheating)

But he's admitted he masturbates at least once a week 😔 so it's not that he's not feeling it it's that he's not feeling me .. I have spoken to him but he just says I'm moaning .. I told him I feel ugly, unwanted, hated, unloved but he just says ... I love you and changes conversation ... I don't know what to do anymore I feel like giving up...

We can I do? He won't listen 😔💔