Advice

I hope this is ok to ask but if you have had an ectopic previously how did you cope with it? I just went to the doctor and found out I have an ectopic and I’m devastated and can’t stop crying. Luckily doctors caught it before it ruptured. When I did the ultrasound I saw the baby and the heartbeat in the wrong place and it just made it so much worse! I was so excited after trying for 3 years already I thought this was it. They did give me a shot and I go back Thursday to see if it’s gone and if not I’ll have to have emergency surgery that day to remove it. Another question I have is how soon after did you conceive again? Thank you.