I'm a sahm. It's something my husband and I agreed on before I even got pregnant.

I take care of our kid and the house 100% alone. My husband goes to work.

But I am so sick of everytime we have a disagreement of any kind, he throws up the "I pay the bills"

It's every single time, we disagree about something.. "I pay the bills" "I paid for that" blah blah blah.

It's just frustrating.. because yes he pays the bills but when he gets home from work, he literally sits on his phone or the game. That's it. I can't even get him to take the trash out for me.

And I know it's not a competition on who does more or whatever but I feel like what I do every single day isn't looked at as a contribution.