My parents are divorced and have been for years . We usually celebrate the <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> so this year I told my mom we are part of secret Santa at my dads side of the family and will be going there or probably doing half the night and she got upset and started telling me I always go over there. Last year I didn’t go with her because they had Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> at my uncles house who is 1 hour away and honestly didn’t want to drive out there and have to drive back late at night with my daughter. So I told her that I would spend half of the night with her and end it with my dads side of the family and she got mad and told me it’s not fair she knows I’m going to be asking my uncle and aunt from my dads side to be the god parents to my daughter. My mom can be selfish and wants us to spend the night with her and not my dads side just because I was there last year . And to top it off my sister is coming from out of state and I know my mom wants all her kids in the same room but sometimes it doesn’t work out the way you want it to be. I’m just very annoyed that she’s upset. I spend Easter , obviously Mother’s Day and usually Halloween and most christmases with her and 1 year she is all upset that I’m going half day. I shouldn’t even bother on going with my mom. I’m 27 years old and she still trying to give me the guilty trip no thank you.