My husband and I almost divorced about 6 months ago. The past year before that he was not himself (we've been together 8 years) where he would snap easily, and even named called at times during heated arguments and said very hurtful things. He had never done that (we'd been together 6-7 years at that point so I knew it wasn't normal). I also wasn't the best, and was being toxic by being controlling and not giving him time or space during arguments. He almost committed suicide during this time as he was very depressed and didn't want to leave the bed.

Since we almost divorced he has been in therapy, and gotten on the right medication - he has returned to my loving, doting husband from before. When things get heated, we talk about it in a calm manner or wait until we can.

We are back to smooth sailing since his depression has been being taken care of and treated.

But I still find myself sometimes bringing up how hurtful it was when he called me names. He's apologized many times and says he was not himself or in his right mind and that he's sorry.

Since we are now in a MUCHHHH better space and back to our normal before that patch.. should I let it go and forgive him?