Women who dated Virgo men

I know you can’t over generalize someone this way but I swear it’s been 100% accurate for me being a Scorpio female. My boyfriend is a Virgo and I have had a good experience so far but I do notice he’s extremely picky and can be judgemental. Not to me but in certain situations. He’s been very sweet and open emotionally and has helped me heal a lot of my traumas so far. I’m able to process my emotions in real time because he provided a safe space for me to do so. But I also hear a lot of people say to stay far away from them. Can y’all tell me your experience with them?