So we recently told a neighbor of mine that I was pregnant and I saw her again today and she asked if we knew the gender already and I said no and she said well hopefully you get a boy so you can be done and I said “yeah maybe”, and she just kept saying over and over again “yeah so you can cut it and be done”. And even when we had told her she kind of gave off the reaction like “yikes” she didn’t vocally say that, but her face definitely did, and it took her a while to even say congratulations. I really don’t care what she thinks, but I thought it was kind of out of pocket for her to say it over and over again, like if we have a boy to stop having kids? I was kind of like wtf?