How do you feel about your spouse of 5 years being annoyed of you going through their phone? My spouse went through my phone assuming 5 times. 1st time he went through my group chat message with my (female) friends. He got mad a message to find out that was even about him. We talked it out he apologized end. 2nd time he Went through my phone he got mad about a message between this dude to only found out the messages is 2017 before we met. Apologized again for jumping to conclusions we moved on. Third he find I was looking in Twitter due to the fact me being 19 trying add spice to our sex life. However at the time I couldn’t articulate it but just used an excuse . which lead me to the 4th situation where it’s the same one but this time I told the truth I’m just trying to satisfy him. He told me i should’ve tokd him bud was still mad at the fact I ain’t tell him. 5tg time him trying to go through my phone while I’m sleep. I woke up and snatched my phone and says I’m tired of getting my privacy invaded. He said “ oh u got privacy now “ nd I said I meant trust cuz privacy just rolled. But he is really taking it ti heart. He then replied “”Alright I just won’t go through your F phone no more “” like it ain’t even what i meant Im just tired of him snooping and while I’m asleep just ask me ? Am I wrong ? I just want an opinion .