Told my fiancé I don’t want kids past 31

We only have 4 more months of trying until I’m 31, is that too harsh? Anyone have any thoughts? We’ve been “trying not trying” for almost a year. It took me 4.5 years to get pregnant with my son… I’m getting nervous.

I took a test tonight and feel like I see something… anyone see it or am I crazy?! 🤪 any thoughts would be appreciated. Please be kind.