I posted this the other day-

Most people responded that she is not my friend and that my husband is right, she’s jealous. Like I said she greatly struggles within her life and has a ton of trauma. I try to keep that in mind and am always very kind and sympathetic with her. She has been my friend for SO long but I am growing very tired of being passive aggressively bullied by her. This morning I woke up that she laugh reacted at a picture of my husband and and I and commented “did you enjoy dinner? There’s some of it still left in your teeth”. Now she would never say anything like this to me in person. However I’ve realized she also will not talk to me about my life. She has zero interest in my kids and husband. When I talk about them she says “hmm…” and then changes the topic back to herself. Back to the jealousy thing, I guess it would be become she desperately wants a relationship + kids buuuut has NEVER had a boyfriend in her life. I’m just wondering now if this is even worth trying to save. Can you remain friends with someone who is bitter you have things they don’t?