So I have been seeing this guy and we just had date number 2. We have seen each other before in the past but he randomly ditched me and completely forgot that we were supposed to hang out.

Months later he messages me out of the blue and says that he wants to make up for what he did. So far he’s been paying for everything, acting like a gentlemen, and I am really enjoying spending my time with him. But I have this small fear of being abandoned again. Is there small ways to test him if he is serious on what he says? Is this relationship really meant to be? Hard to tell from someone who has no idea what a healthy relationship looks like so you overthink everything. And that alone makes me think that will scare him off when it hasn’t.

I really hope I am not alone and I just want to hear what other people have experienced with these type of scenarios. I am not one to hold a grudge against someone and always give them the benefit of the doubt.