Might be a stupid question but…

Do you think being aroused or stimulated before sex makes a difference? I just can’t get into sex when we’re trying cuz all my mind is thinking is about the idea that we are baby making and it’s like a medical procedure just waiting to get my deposit. Lmaoo 😝😂😂

We also have two young kids so we are trying to be quiet and we have to wait till they are asleep. Most of the time my husband has work super early in the morning. It’s a goddamn mess. My kids also sleep in our rooms because they are too scared to sleep in their rooms. (I know we have created a horrible habit but whatever i am cherishing this as it won’t last forever) so we have to always walk out go to the guest room to do the deed.

Anyways I noticed when I’m trying harder to conceive it doesn’t happen fast.