Who here only has 1 child and doesn’t plan on having more? Do you like it? Did you choose it & why?

I’ve been TTC for my 2nd child on and off for the last year and a half (or two) with multiple losses. My husband just decided that he wants to stop trying because he doesn’t feel like it’s the “right time”. Not sure why it’s not right now when it was fine before. But that’s besides the point.

He did ask me (along the lines of) what if we just had one kid? The thought of that makes me really sad… although I have thought about it before. But I just cannot imagine having only one child. I would want 2 children if I could decide.

He keeps going back and forth between wanting to keep trying for a 2nd child and not wanting to. It’s really hard for me to have that false hope.

😞

But anyways, if you only have one child - tell me about it. I feel like I might need to accept that this is the way it might go.