Maybe some things aren’t meant to be…

To make a long story somewhat short me and my husband have tried for almost the entire length of our relationship, soon to be 13 years to get pregnant. I’ve found out that the old insurance we changed from didn’t offer even as a cash patient infertility treatments, so we switched to another insurance (only so many insurance thru his work) and unfortunately this insurance does t cover any services either. So, I’ve come here to ask some questions. Where should I go from here? What options should I start looking into. Me and my husband have discussed about out of pocket expenses and obviously these treatments IVF, etc. aren’t cheap. If you were and probably many of you are or have been where would you go from here? What treatments do you start looking into? Do you jump right into finding an IVF Dr.? Do you search and find an infertility treatment center and discuss options? After all these years I’m just left….hopeless.