Last month I found out I was pregnant, sadly I miscarried a week later. My husband just asked if I was ok, he didn’t come home early to help with our other kids. I felt like I had no support and still don’t. I’m a sham most of the time so all the responsibilities are on me. I take care of the house, kids, school and everything else. My husband is just the provider. He tried to help when he can but always makes it a big deal when he does!

Last week he told me not to take the kids to work with me but since all my employees left I took them. When my husband found out he got so mad. He sent me a rude text message and refuses to talk to me about it. This is repeated behavior, his family is the master of silent treatment. When he first started to give me the silent treatment it would last a day and next day we would be fine. Now it’s lasted over a week. I’m so tired of this behavior, I’m depressed and having anxiety over this stonewalling negativity. He always find a way to make everything my fault in order to control me. It’s like I lost myself these past 10 years I’ve been married. I’ve had to give up so much to make him happy, I’m a very independent person so after we got married and this controlling life just kept getting worse and worse. I don’t know what to do. If he would just communicate with me I don’t think I would be this upset. I’ve had thoughts of leaving but I don’t want my kids to grow up miserable.