So I’ve been in an off and on relationship/fling with this man from my hometown. We see each other whenever we are home from college or sometimes I visit him at his campus apartment. It has always been casual between us but there was a routine of seeing each other. We went on dates and hooked up.We said we would have wanted something serious if we had went to the same college.

Last night, he surprised me and invited me over to stay the night. When I came over he had a candlelit dinner he made himself waiting for me. It was very romantic. Then we had a very intimate night. Oils, candles, pampering, the whole vibe.

As we were laying in bed I smiled up at him, then all the sudden he got up and said he needs some air. He put on all his clothes and left the apartment.

He came back and told me he had broken up with a girl he dated when I was away and was struggling. He told me I should get my things and leave that night because he was so uncomfortable.

I didn’t have anywhere else to go because my strict father thought I was at a lady’s night and I didn’t have a car.

I had to spend the night. He drank all night then slept on the couch. I slept in his bed.

It was so embarrassing because I thought he really liked me. We’ve known each other for two years and he told me this was going to be special for my birthday.

I cried all night. I do not know what I was expecting.