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I’m currently pregnant with my second child and a feeling just came over me thinkin my daughter would be mad at me for having another baby before she’s even 3 I told my husband and he told me if I don’t want our child I can abort and I can have the baby and give it to him so I won’t feel like my daughter is being neglected and it turned into an argument, am I wrong for having that feeling? I was only looking for reassurance and it turned into him making it about him and our new baby, it’s starting to make me feel like I shouldn’t say anything else at all about how im feeling because it would turn into a argument but when I don’t say anything he gets upset as well, I’m only a few weeks and although I am excited I haven’t gotten to enjoy this pregnancy because im always stressed about something, also my kids have different dads 😔