Pls Tell me if I’m the problem

I need advice from people who are non-biased so here I am. Me (19 f) and my bf (19 m) have been living together for a year and a half. Even though we are young we are dating for marriage so please don’t just comment to break up. I’m looking for advice as to if I am being toxic.

The situation is not that big of a deal. My bf told me he was bored and I started asking him if he wanted to do all sorts of diff things. We settled on going shopping. He said that he will take an edible (legal here) while we shop and asked me to drive home. I told him « yeah I can but I would rather not » because I have anxiety driving in that particular area. ( I would never ask him to drive while high I just wanted him to wait and take it when we get back.) We then get into an argument and he says that I do nothing for him ever and I should have just said yes immediately. He says my response made him feel shifty. And I apologized for making him feel shitty and then explained that even though the situation makes me nervous I am still willing to do it for him because I love him. Even after that he says I should immediately say yes because of all he does for me. Which by the way (imo) isn’t all that much. He drives us around all the time but I’m the one who pays for mostly everything and I do most of the cleaning. Idk I just don’t understand where he is coming from. But am I doing something wrong. Was I actually acting toxic?