First check up at 20w4d

Had my first “real” check up with my family doctor. (Not in US or healthcare is a bit different)

Was told that this would have to be my last child. In my mind I all ready had that idea of last baby due to only wanting 2. Was told due to last pregnancy for having GD and the term preclaimcia was thrown around but was not full told if I had it or not, any possibility for a third is out of the cards.

Even if I decided only 2 I’m happy with that but now told that is a medical thing it makes me sad.

On the other side was told I had to go on leave at 34 weeks soo 14 more weeks of work to go before the 86 days of maternity plus 18 vacation days.