Am I bad for getting the ick from this..

Whenever I try to initiate sex I seem to most of the time get shut down.

My bf and I have recently been trying to work on our relationship.

Tonight I tried to initiate sex because last night I didn’t get cum and I was so close. He said he was too tired but then went straight on to keep playing his video games.. (not that it matters but he’s 32)

Anyways. It’s put me so off, like you’re too tired to have sex for three minutes but not too tired to play games all night ?

And I can’t even express that it upsets me because he will throw the “we’re supposed to be working on our relationship” card and tell me I’m overthinking.