Would you find this weird ?

I saw a notification from someone on my husbands social media account . I went into messages , we all know why . 🙄 I’m not proud of myself as I keep telling myself not to do it .

Anyway , I read a little bit of their conversation ( i know I’m wrong don’t remind me . ) . The girl asked if he had kids yet and he says no . She asked him why not . Mind you we just found out after 3 years of trying that I have PCOS and in the works of getting fertility treatment .

He responds , “God has other plans . I’ve manage to escape a few scares / attempts “

🤔 What the hell is that supposed to mean ? From my end , I’ve never pressured him into a baby, for the longest I didn’t want one . We had a scare when we weren’t trying , but nothing since . He’s always claiming we’re going to have a baby , so why would he say that ? I’m not mad just confused as to why he would say that to anyone .

Edit : I started out our conversation by apologizing for invading his privacy . It’s not something I want to do or even find okay . I’m pretty confident that i have trust issues in general . ( random fact : i wanted to rent out our other bedroom but I’m too afraid that someone will rob us or cause harm - seeking therapy btw)

I explained to him what i saw and he tells me that it had nothing to do with our relationship . The women he entertained before me had scares or pregnant ending in miscarriage or termination . I asked him if he felt pressured by the situation and he says no . I also asked if he wants to wait , he says no , he knows that it may take us a while to conceive due to our fertility .

He pointed out that he’s not upset with me and glad that i asked - so that we talk about it . He did say he will ensure I never feel this way again .

Their conversation started because his birthday passed recently and his friends posted a photo of them all , he had one of their babies in his arms . She thought the child was his .