Any ideas help ?

I’m turning 30 on Tuesday I’m a mom of 3 children . I want to go have dinner with some friends only have some alone time Because on Saturday I wanna spend time with my husband and go out somewhere just us. It kind of sucks since everyone works during the weekday. I don’t wanna throw myself a party either because I gotta do all the cleaning afterwards . And I just wanna enjoy it. I honestly have been looking for other ideas but I just don’t know what else I can do? Can you guys throw some ideas ? Should I make a small together at home? Should I go out to have dinner with friends on Tuesday? Should I just go out on Saturday with my husband +children ? Idk guys idk what to do 😩😭. Sorry if I post it in the wrong group