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me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 years and have kids together. his mom and her so have never liked me (idk why) i’ve dealt with disrespect and racism from there for the whole 8 years and kept quiet cause that’s his mom.. but i had enough and stood up for myself a few weeks ago and said my kids can’t go over there.. now i’m being looked at as if i’m in the wrong. but i feel like all this is causing me not want to be with my boyfriend anymore because of all of this. am i wrong for what i’m doing and what’s some insight on how i’m feeling right now