Guys suck like there’s no good ones

Literally at work today this guy comes to the place I work, a restaurant, and asks what drinks there were because he was going to surprise his wife with a drink (you order drinks and eat in separate areas) and tells me she’s over with their baby. I had on my worship music playlist cause listen to it in the morning on Sundays and he was singing it so I was like oh cool you know this song, he asks if I’m going to the church in the area, and I say no. So he says oh my wife is next door if you want write down your phone number so she can give you the info about small group and I’ll give it to her (MY FIRST MISTAKE). His wife actually comes over after he gets my number and introduces herself, we talk about churches, she was so nice and so I thought everything was actually platonic and then He texts me even though he sent his wife’s number Already is stepping over the line even though it’s nothing inherently inappropriate but it’s just like what the fuck? I feel so naive and like you can’t trust anyone. I’m so pissed at myself but at men in general too 😂 just a rant why I’m so confused with this move like your wife right there??

Ps I have stopped responding

Pps I put this is adult relationships cause I have no idea where else to put it

Edit: yeah I am I thought I was making friends like this was Gods way of nudging me back towards a church because not to get into it but I feel I’m more spiritual than religious because though I am a Christian I don’t believe I can trust Pastors but have been debating if I need some fellowship and make some friends that believe similarly to what I do