Needing advice..

Alright so i’m not exactly sure where to start, but I am due in July (currently a few days short of 20 week) and i’ve been showing since about 14/15 weeks. My boyfriend and I originally planned on keeping it a secret since we found out until around 25 weeks..(mainly due to his career being seasonal & ending around april) but as I’m getting bigger (and more lonely having no one to talk to about pregnancy) I want to announce a little sooner.

We’ve now been arguing because he thinks I need everything to go “my way”.. examples: when i want to announce.. finding out gender (i don’t want to find out he does) and names.

Is it just me or do husbands/boyfriends never really care about these type of things (except names.. i’m totally fine with compromising/agreeing on our child’s name) But I feel like most women are the ones who decide when they want to announce.. especially after 12/14 weeks and the men don’t really care?

Part of me hates the fact that the word will spread around town before i get the chance to announce myself (especially seeing people i know /clients every day & week) but not sure how to feel about the whole situation..

Any ideas/ comments / advice is GREATLY appreciated😭🙏🏼