Random question

I am currently 18 weeks with baby number two and my in-laws have no idea I am pregnant. My husband wants to do gender reveal cupcakes for both sides. Considering that they treat my husbaand like crap, I was going to wait until the next time we were invited to a family gathering (probably Thanksgiving next year even though we live in the same town) and just show up with our second child.

The quesstion I have is, would you still do the gender reveal cupcakes for them just to make your husband happy?