Best gift ever

Expecting testing day to be on our anniversary! 2-20. I'm suppose to be ovulating ...well NOW. We are on month five of trying. It's a bit frustrating being my mother has never needed to "try" and she ended up with 9 (physically born) children. And she's not per say the most qualified parent. ( I mean I know more about the how to's of getting pregnant than she does. It's a bit sad and awkward when a 44 year old woman who has 9 children has to ask her daughter every month when ovulation for her will occurs or even her monthly menatration is)