Trying to conceive

Hi! I have never posted on a blog but some support/inspiration would be helpful. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for nine months and I am starting to get discouraged. My husband doesn't seem phased he is so laid back about it but I can't get it out of my mind! I quit drinking, started prenaitals and earring healthier for nine months.  I'm young and healthy  so it's Just very frustrating!