Has anyone on here lost a child and TTC again?!

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Im finding certain things difficult and trying my hardest not to stress as I have heard it lowers your fertility and also any tips please ?! Thanks guys x

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I had a MC and ERPC on 17th April... TTC again now

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I lost my daughter when she was 6 months old.  She choked on a piece of plastic when I thought she was napping.  I'm a pediatric nurse so it was heartbreaking that I couldn't save her although I tried when I found her not breathing.  I had to have a tubal reversal in September and we've been trying since.  It's so emotional because my first two I conceived in one month and now that I want another so bad after losing my Lainey it's been 8 months and nothing.  I guess it'll happen when the time is right but still very hard.

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I lost my little angel at 17 weeks before New Year's Eve. I was a wreck and after my family's encouragement I finally got back on track. The road is rocky and sometimes your gonna worry, but that's the process. Hopefully your goal will be a BFP and happy and healthy nine months. Baby Dust to you ladies!

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Had a miscarriage a month ago and trying ever since 
​Hopefully I get BFP. Can't wait to raise a child with my fiancé. Having my own family is one of my goals.

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When I was 15 I gave birth to my daughter at 32 weeks. She was born sleeping. I had a lot of trauma to my lady parts and now at 26 I'm told that I have until January to concieve. (I have to have a hysterectomy for medical reason) I don't ovulate so I'm on clomid and metformin. We have been trying for 9 months but no luck yet. I have so many fears and worries about if I do get pregnant. I'm like a crazy mad women at the moment whic is causing so many problems with my partner and I. 
​Good luck to you.

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Hiya thank you for your comments guys! Feeling relieved now, I had my baby boy kayden last year then 12 hours later found out that he had a CHD and sadly gained his angel wings at 8 weeks old, I am litteraly terrified I have another one with that same defect and have to go through all the operations and still can't get the image of my beautiful baby boy in pain and there was nothing I could do to stop or ease the pain:(!

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My situation is pretty different but I feel your pain still. I've never been pregnant. However, my younger brother passed away 2 years ago from complications of several autoimmune diseases. After that traumatic and heartbreaking experience and watching my parents struggle with the loss of a child, I am terrified that I will pass on the genetics that cause autoimmune diseases to my children. The thought of having to go through all of that again is very scary. But I have to remember how worth it, it is. If I had to choose between never having had my brother or having the pain of losing him, I'd do it all over again.

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I lost twins born at 19 weeks in late 2008. Then we got pregnant with our daughter on our very first try in 2009--literally the first night. We're TTC again now and in month #2. Hopefully that helps. We didn't have any problem conceiving after the loss.

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I lost my first son at 36 weeks and went through TTC for my second son, now 17 months. We are getting ready to TTC for another soon. I'm not sure I have great tips, but be kind to yourself. Allow some hope to seep in, even if that feels scary and impossible. Accept (if you can) that it may take awhile. Be open and ready for good things. It was hard and terrifying, and I think still will be this time for us too. You're not alone!

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Erin, I had a miscarriage last Year! I was so anxious to get pregnant again that I did a lot of TTC treatment! After 6 months I stoped, ler my body take a rest!!! I did some medical tests! Now that I feel better and my body os recovered I am going to do it again! Best wishes for us!

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