He wants to try anal...?

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I'm scared it'l hurt hes thick! My butthole is small... Idk what too do last night he tried putting it in with lubricant and he didnt even get the tip all the way in and it hurt!!! I cleaned and I was bleeding a little. What can I do? I wanna do it too satisfy him & satisfying him will keep me satisfied.

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Try using a vibrator in your vag while he's trying to insert himself it helps to distract from the pain. Also for the next couple of days after you have anal you'll have bathroom issues. If you aren't comfortable doing it and he cares for you he will understand. My man would love to do this but he is just too large for me but loves be enough not to push the issue. Also you can try using a butt plug to stretch yourself if being with him in this way is important to you.

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On top of what the other ladies said, you have to make sure you relax as much as possible. Difficult to do when it's so painful, but by relaxing your hole as he's putting it in, it won't hurt as bad and will go in more smoothly. You guys should also have lots of foreplay leading up to it. "Preparing" you with fingers (1 leading up to 2 or 3), lots of lube, and over a period of time, then try out actually sliding his d in. But play with foreplay and see if you even like it. ;)

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!! I would say let me try it on you see how you like it !! Lol but that's me.

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I've done it. It will hurt the first time it's better and more comfortable for the women to go on top I haven't done that since I've had a baby. If that's any help take it slow

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Foreplay and lube are absolutely necessary! My boyfriend and I tried to do it but it hurt so much. I bled (not a whole lot but still more than I expected) for two days afterwards :(

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I've done it with my husband. You will bleed, but that is nothing to be concerned about. And you and him HAVE to be lubercated. And he can't just "put" it in. He has to ease it in. A little at a time. It feels a lot like pressure. But if it does it and you just don't like it, then that should he it. Don't do it anymore. He should understand. But if you want to do it, just follow the above, and it shouldn't hurt as bad. And you might actually like it. ;-)

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I tried it once when I was with my ex and it hurt sooo bad that I started screaming for him to pull it out!! I ran to the bathroom and I wiped and I waa bleeding. I told him as much as I loved him and wanted to keep him happy in the bedroom I couldn't do that again. My DH thinks it is gross and said he would never would do it and hurt me.

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Just tell him to take it slow, maybe he could insert a little more each time you try,  remind him that this is all new and to take it gently and slowly loads and loads of lube!!!! Remember your body your say too!! X

He wants to try anal...?

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