How do you keep hope?

Rhonda • TTC #1 for 11 months. Good luck to everyone for sticky beans soon!
This is my first post here, but I've been struggling lately and all the posts I read here are so helpful I thought I'd try one of my own. My husband and I have been TTC for about 9 months now with no luck.
​How do you keep up hope and stay positive? And how do you stay calm and not stressed? I swear if one more person tells me it'll happen when I'm not thinking about it! lol 
Anyone else dealing with this too? Any and all suggestions appreciated!