not trying but not preventing

does anyone else have a problem with this? this is my mans attitude and im not feelin it, to me either u are sexing to make a baby or not. i cant stand his gray area, if im going to go through all the mess of being pregnant, birthing a child and then raising it for the next 18 yrs i need to kno he really wants it! anyone else feel like this ? or am i just over analyzing the situation?