Furious about MIL!!
Sorry this is a little long but I'm so upset!
About a little over a week ago the mother inlaw asked me when my anatomy scan is, so I told her what day it was! (next week Tuesday, the 9th) and she invited herself to it!!!!
She said "I'm so going to be there! I can't wait to see my grandbaby" - She didn't even ask me or DH or anything! So after that I told her that I don't think I want anyone there with us because this is our first baby (and her first grandchild). She basically ignored me and said "You can even ask your doctor about taking a tour of the Labor &Delivery floor!". I was pretty upset and left that conversation. (We were messaging eachother)
BUT, then again a couple of days ago she brought it up again! Saying she was so excited and couldn't wait to see her grandbaby 'on that screen'.
What should I do!? I feel like this should be me and DH's special moment together, alone. I mean I can even see MIL trying to invite herself in on the delivery! (Already came up with a plan and precautions for that though lol). DH said he would talk to her and tell her because well it's his mother, but I feel as if I should tell her myself because I'm the one that's so upset about it. How should I go about doing so? She's also not the most sensitive person either. I've already been pretty stressed and I really don't want her there to say something (like always) to upset me or ruin the moment. I'm not very emotional, but some of the things she's said so far has actually made me cry- which we've already recently talked about together. But does this make me a bad person? I mean she's already got the chance to hear the heartbeat and she'll see the sono. pics afterwards. I know how much it will mean to her to be there since it's her first grandchild, but I strongly believe and feel this should be only me and DH's special moment until we announce it to everybody.
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