I think I'm out this month :(

This is my husband and I's first month of TTC and we BD a lot during the fertile window that glow predicted, used pre seed and everything...but I really think I'm ovulating now because I have a lot of EWCM and having twinges of pain in my right side which I'm guessing is my right ovary. I just am really feeling negative and bummed because I really think we missed it this month. My husband got surgery on Friday so we can't BD for a couple of weeks.