Weight is a problem ?

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So I'm 20 , five one , 144 pounds with hips and butt . My body isn't the best I don't work out I don't tone anything and I have a junk food tummy well you know that pudge and my bf doesn't like it . He says he doesn't care but he's always grabbing on my fat and calling me a fat ass when I eat a lot at his house (he always a says he's playing but I don't like it  ) .. I don't have the motivation to exercise but I wanna be slim for him what can I do to be slim ?

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I honestly don't believe he is worth your time! I absolutely think he is emotionally abusive. Someone who grabs,pokes, at any excess weight you may have is doing nothing but putting you down. Please don't allow anyone to destroy your self image or self respect. You absolutely deserve!!

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First thing you need to do:: realize you don't have to change for him, meaning if you don't want to slim down, then don't feel pressure to do so. You can tell him he's acting like a jerk when he says a negative comment towards you, your weight, size, etc. Be happy with how you are. Maybe ask him to take walks around the block with you or do some other form of physical activity. Don't feel like you need to change because of him. If he doesn't act nicer, dump him. You shouldn't be treated like that.

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Leave the prick. If he doesn't like you the way you are he sure as hell don't love you. I had a relationship like that once and it only got worse and now abusive and meaner made me put on more weight

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You should dump his judgemental ass, and then if you're uncomfortable with your body, work to change it for yourself. Not anybody else. Get super hot and show him what he missed out on

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Do it for yourself never anyone else and it's healthy for you anyways. Once you motivate yourself to go, it becomes a habit. It actually becomes addicting, you should be open with yourself and challenge yourself. Be the best you can be of yourself, it's fun.

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There are a lot of things you can do to slim down. Eating a calorie controlled diet and being more active:) I find that myfitnesspal helps a lot?

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Nobody can call u names,  doesn't matter are u in relationship or not,  but if u also see it's not good for u do something ,  also just walking can help a lot, and dont have late snacks and candys, thats helping for me, so if u go do something do for yourself

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Cid net first off your boyfriend is a sheer dick for even doing that. It's hard.on self esteem and just disrespectful. Second I'm the same as you I'm just to lazy to work out. Even when I try to get into a routine it lasts like 2 days. I downloaded My fitness Pal, and I cut my calories in half. I kinda have to wean myself into a diet because I love my potatoe chips and tasty cakes. I give myself 1325 in calories a day. I've lost 8 pounds so far and still losing it. I up the callable every month so I consume less junk food you can try it.

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The only person you want to change is you. If he wants you to change, tell him no and if he's not happy about it, tell him "you're going out with me, and you liked the way I was." What's different than it is now than what it was? Talk to him about it. Good luck

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Drink lots of water like 1-2 liters a day its beneficial. Plus you'll loose weight .....drink a glass of 8oz before every meal and youll see a diffrence real quick change a soda to a glass of water

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