Sad and emotional

It's 5 in the morning and I have yet to go to sleep because my tooth has cracked and I am in a good amount of pain. My husband is sleeping like a baby and when I expressed my concern about swallowing the tooth his response was "a lot of people swallow their teeth".. Great response! Today is my birthday and I didn't expect it to be like this at all. It's my first birthday away from home and everything seems to be going wrong. He had saved money to take me shopping for my birthday and now that money is going towards a tooth extraction. I don't wanna sound like a brat but this all just made me really upset and I needed to vent ?