Relationship/bullying? help :/

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I need advice, and no judgement. 
​Me and my boyfriend are both I'm college and we've been together for about a year. 
​Me and him have been arguing a lot lately. 
​Me and him broke up one night and he hooked up with a girl at a bar. The next day he didn't tell me about it and we decided to make our relationship work. 
​But right after we decided to make it work, he texted the girl he met on a bar to see her again. 
​He didn't even tell me I found out snooping through his phone
​So the other day I was on campus studying in my car (it's super quiet) and he saw my car door was unlocked he knew I didn't want to talk so he just opened the door to start arguing.
​I told him all I wanted to do was study and asked him to go away. 
​He wouldn't. 
​At this point I was still sitting in my car 
​And then his sister (who I've only met once for a few seconds) came up to my car and started yelling at me about what a terrible girlfriend I am
​I asked both of them to please go away and said all I wanted to do was study.
​They wouldn't leave me alone. 
​I finally said to his sister who was yelling at me "please move over so I can at least get out of my car."
​Her response: "no. I'm not going to let you stand."
​I started crying uncontrollably.. All I wanted to do was study.
​His sister kept yelling about how bad I am (even though she only knows my boyfriends side of everything.) 
​My boyfriend added fuel to the fire by yelling to his sister that I had an abortion (3 years ago, he didn't even know me then, my mom forced me into it, and I don't like people knowing about it.) 
​I guess he yelled about it and made it public to hurt me. 
​When they walked away I went back into my car to cry and locked my doors. 
​ my boyfriend came back, he tried to open the doors again but they were locked so he banged on my window and windshield. I called my dad because I was scared and he told me to call campus police. I did. They got him to go away. 
​After he texted all of my guy friends telling them years ago I had an abortion and I'm a meth addict (which is untrue) 
​I feel so upset and can't think clearly because of all this 
​

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Fuck both of them that's awful.  At this point would you really want to be in a relationship like that

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You deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect. If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time on this guy. It is better to be single and happy than to force a relationship with someone who doesn't treat you they way you deserve to be treated. Good luck!

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You need to leave this relationship asap break up with him and move on those people are crazy!!!  His sister crazy she sounds like a crazy person!! So stay away from them his not your bf his a freaken slut and you deserve better then that

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seriously don't put yourself through this anymore. i dealt with that with my ex and I let it go for too long. it got to the point where we were arguing and I got in my car and drove away and he followed me calling me swearing and telling me he wouldn't stop and he would message my best guy friend and tell him everything I did wrong and it's such bullshit really. 
​don't deal with it anymore honey in no way will it ever be worth it to stay in a relationship like that. it will only get worse.

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Don't deal with it.  That's it.  Move on like you've never met him.  It's cold, it's rude, but it's what I do when people have crossed the line.   I shut off all emotions good & bad.

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Jesus christ that sounds horrible. Try to keep calm, I'm sure your guy friends won't take the text seriously if they're real friends. In my opinion he doesn't seem to respect you at all, doesn't seem like a good relationship at all though I'm not in your shoes. Though I think after that event I would have left him. Think calmly :)

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Wow that's awful, sorry you had to go through that! He is well obviously a complete tosser and not worth even looking at when you walk by. And his sister is a wanker also. Grow some strength so when you pass by them again you can just keep walking and say Fuck Off with your head held high!

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No one deserves to be treated like that and you deserve to be treated with respect, especially from someone who claims to love you.  Focus on you and your studies and don't let them pull you into their negativity and mean behaviors. Someone willing to publicly (or privately) hurt and humiliate you is not the kind of person you should waste your time or energy on.

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They both suck. Distance yourself and focus on you. What a bunch of loonies

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Not even worth your time girl. If he can't be nice to you, not even worth being with him. You're much better than that. And if he is going to go and sleep with another girl the next night, he must not care about the relationships. Get out before you get more involved. You can do way better

Relationship/bullying? help :/

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