Symptoms are gone!??

So I'm 8-9 dpo (guessing really- very irregular and no definite opk this cycle), TTC #1 for 4 months now. Last week I had all sorts of new symptoms;  aches, tmi lots of creamy cm, and really sore breasts (not normal before AF for me)  anyways- as of this morning they are all gone! Everything feels fine- super dissapointing, I really thought this was the month for us :( does this happen to ppl before a bfp? Do I have any hope here? Thanks all!